This will by no means be my last or final word on this topic. In fact, I’m just getting started.
Moreover, in this article, I will only scratch the surface. Much, much more can and will be said on this subject, however, I want to briefly go over the basics before diving in deeper.
Where in the World do you meet Millennial Women?
Ah. The classic lamentation yelled from the city rooftops, the Facebook Newsfeed, and the bowels of 4chan.
Yet, maybe that isn’t a complaint you can relate to.
Maybe you’re wondering where you can meet quality Millennial women.
Or, more still, maybe you believe none exist at all!
Well buckos, good news, because that couldn’t be farther from the truth.
While the advent of feminism, the introduction of birth control, and the incredible advancements of technology have forever altered the landscape we now find ourselves in, the game is still the same:
Maximize your physical appearance + Talk to girls.
That’s it. That’s the “secret formula” all the players use, from Casanova all the way to Chad the Football Quarterback.
But what really has changed?
Female empowerment. Feminism. Whatever you want to call it. This has resulted in women entering the workforce and no longer requiring a man for financial support.
What does this mean for you?
Women no longer need men.
As a result? Male neediness is even more unattractive.
There’s a bit more to it than this, however, for the purpose of this article, we’ll leave it at that.
Up next, Birth Control.
Condoms. IUD. Spermicide. The “pill.” Pick your poison, because there are plenty of contraceptive options to go around! And what did this little variable change? A lot, actually.
Sexual encounters have been cheapened.
What was once deemed a special and sacred act one would only do with their life partner–as it would result in a baby!–it can now be done with any stranger you meet on the internet! Yippee!
While the biological response of sex remains the same (neurotransmitters and hormones that create feelings of trust, love, attachment, etc.), it is now entirely different on a cultural level.
To your average Millennial, holding hands in public means much more to them than an all-night fuck-a-thon into the wee hours of the morning.
We live in a brave new world.
No longer must you call your sweetheart’s landline and have an awkward conversation with one of their parents just to schedule a date.
No longer must you go days without any interaction from the opposite sex if you’re trapped at your parents’ house for Christmas.
No longer must you even need another physical body to get sexually aroused.
Times are a-changin’.
So, what should a young up-and-coming millennial skirt chaser take into consideration when it comes to technology?
Speed of communication.
The amount of time it takes to meet a dozen women has been reduced tenfold. There’s no need to hit the sidewalk and block out time doing, “approaches,” when you can simply download an app and begin swiping away.
Let’s briefly recap what we’ve learned before I lay out your battle plan.
-The Formula for meeting women = Maximize your physical appearance + Talk to girls.
Always has been, always will be.
-The Changed Variables of our Time:
–1. Neediness is now significantly more unattractive.
–2. Commitment is now considered a much more valuable commodity than sex.
–3. The speed at which you can now meet and subsequently schedule dates and meetups with women has been drastically reduced.
Great. Now that we know what we’re dealing with, what’s our plan of attack for consistently meeting high-quality millennial women?
Step 1. Download Tinder, Bumble, OkCupid, and Coffee Meets Bagel.
Depending on where you are located internationally, Badoo may be an option as well. Aside from these, ignore all other apps. Hinge, Plenty of Fish, etc. are all useless.
Now before you say, “Only hoes use those apps, blah, blah, blah…”
You’re right. Hoes do use these apps. Hoes also use the sidewalk. And go to the grocery store. They’re everywhere.
You’re not going to be swiping on goddesses every single time, but you’ll find some gems here and there. Moreover, if you’re struggling to get going in real life–you have a small social circle or are too anxious to ask out a girl in person–online dating will help you get your feet wet and get you moving in the right direction.
I’m not going to go into detail with what your photos, bio, etc. should be, that’s for another post, just use common sense and don’t put up anything ugly.
It is worth noting, however, that if you put in that extra bit of effort to have a few great photos–maybe even some that have been professionally taken–you’ll be miles ahead of the pack.
If you use these apps consistently, you should be able to land several dates per week.
Don’t overthink the “opening message” either.
A simple one that will get you spotted amongst the forever lapping tide of, “hey whats up,” messages a girl has in her inbox is, “Let me guess… you’re [insert ethnicity or nationality here].”
That’s it. That should land you plenty of replies.
Feel free to experiment with something else, but be sure to use a little novelty. Don’t over do it, but do make an effort to not send them something generic.
Step 2. Approach 1-2 girls (or more) every time you leave the house.
Whatever you’re doing, whether it’s for work, play, or an unfortunate and unplanned trip to the pharmacy, make it your mission to approach 1 or more women while you’re out and about.
Don’t overthink this either.
Depending on where you are, just make up some bullshit circumstantial reason to ask them a question, then go from there.
For instance, if a girl is sitting in a coffee shop, you could ask her about her laptop bag because you’re looking for one to buy your sister for her birthday.
(Note: Don’t worry about, “lying,” like this to have something to say. You can tell her it was bullshit later. If it does end up turning into something serious, she’ll love that your relationship began the same way every stupid rom-com starts.)
If you feel like the interaction is going well, it is perfectly normal to ask for her phone number before you leave.
You could also rehash our now classic, “Let me guess…” line if need be, however, unless you’re at a bar or nightclub, I’d avoid asking about their race or nationality.
In this case, it is far better to make it again something circumstantial that has to do with your environment.
Example: “Let me guess.. you’re a student at [xyz school that’s a few blocks away].”
If anxiety gets the best of you when doing this, take baby steps.
Start by just asking women questions or complimenting them, then walking away.
As you get more comfortable, you can push the interactions a little farther each time.
Step 3. Follow the above and you’ll be swimming in ass.
I’m kidding. Well, not really.
Since we know that no one does jack shit and there’s no competition, you probably will be.
While everyone else has their face glued to their Instagram and Facebook, you should have no issue standing out, especially if you follow step 2.
In this age of Soyboys and #MeToo accusations, no one approaches women during the day anymore, so you’ll stick out like a sore thumb.
Ayo hol’ up, so what you be sayin’ about meetin’ high quality women?
Good question – I almost forgot.
While the above is guaranteed to help you meet more women, meeting high-quality women is something you’ll have to filter and screen for yourself.
Now, you could make it a point to join your local Polo team and become a member of the high-end country club down the road, however, that could be a mute point.
You need to decide for yourself what makes a woman high quality, and, likewise, recognize that meeting women is a largely a numbers game.
So whether you’re looking online or in person, quality women will be there, you just need to give it time.
In other words, there are plenty of fish in the sea, but you may need to catch a lot of fish before you get a good one.
So get off the internet–unless you’re on the dating apps of course–get out of the house, and get going.